About me – Porn Erika

Hi, I’m Erika

Welcome to my little corner of the internet.

You might know me from the screen. Or maybe you don’t know me at all—and that’s okay. Whether you stumbled here by accident, curiosity, or support, I’m glad you’re here.

I’m a porn actress. But more importantly, I’m a woman. A thinker. A creator. A human being who, just like you, is navigating life with dreams, doubts, desires, and days when nothing goes as planned.

This blog isn’t just about what I do—it’s about who I am. It’s a space where I share my life behind the lens: my routines, mindset, challenges, rituals, and all the little things that make this life both wild and wonderfully normal.

If you’ve ever wondered what a porn actress eats for breakfast, how she keeps her mental health in check, or what it’s like to juggle real-world relationships while working in an industry that comes with more stereotypes than truth—you’re in the right place.

So let’s rewind a little and start with my story.

Where It All Started

I didn’t grow up thinking, “I want to be a porn star.” No one does, really. What I did grow up with was curiosity, a desire for freedom, and a need to question the rules.

I was always the girl who asked “why?” in class. Why should we follow this path? Why is this the only definition of success? Why can’t we talk openly about sex, power, or desire without shame?

I didn’t come from a broken home. I wasn’t “lost.” I was ambitious, expressive, and fascinated by human connection—and, yes, sexuality too. I studied psychology for a while. Worked in hospitality. Modeled part-time. And eventually, after a lot of thinking and researching, I made a decision: I wanted to enter the adult film world.

Not because I had to. But because I chose to.

It wasn’t a decision I made lightly. I knew it came with stigma. I knew it would change how some people saw me. But I also knew this: I didn’t want to live a life defined by someone else’s comfort.

Why I Started This Blog

The moment you tell someone you work in porn, their brain jumps to assumptions. They see a character, not a person. They either objectify you or pity you. Rarely do they just… listen.

That’s why I started this blog.

I wanted a space where I could be fully human. Where I could show you what life actually looks like behind the scenes. Where I could talk about everything other than the content I film—because let’s be honest, there’s already enough of that on the internet.

This blog is about:

My daily life—from skincare to self-care to what I pack for set
My mindset—how I manage judgment, stay grounded, and own my voice
My wellness—what I eat, how I move, how I rest
My experiences—the wins, the weird moments, the truths I’ve learned
And most importantly: my growth—as a woman, a creative, and a businesswoman

I write for people who are curious. For people who are open-minded. For anyone who wants to understand this world without sensationalism. And honestly? I write for myself, too. This space helps me process, reflect, and stay connected to my truth.

Who I Am Outside of Work

I’m a homebody with a wild side. I love clean sheets, black coffee, oversized hoodies, and acoustic playlists. I’m also the first one on the dance floor when Beyoncé plays.

I’m a skincare addict, an amateur chef (emphasis on amateur), and a lover of mystery novels. My idea of heaven is a Sunday afternoon with no plans, a face mask on, and a book I can’t put down.

I’m big on boundaries, energy, and intentional living. I believe in taking up space without apology. I believe in choosing softness and strength. I believe in creating your own definition of success—even if it confuses people.

I also believe in laughing at yourself. Because, let’s be real, life’s too short to be that serious.

What I Stand For

This blog—and the way I live my life—is rooted in a few core values:

Authenticity
I won’t pretend to be someone I’m not. I’m not perfect. I have off days, insecurities, and things I’m still working through. But I always show up as me.
Consent and Empowerment
I work in an industry that puts consent front and center. I wish the rest of the world did the same. Everyone deserves to live, love, and express themselves without shame—so long as it’s done with mutual respect.
Growth and Curiosity
I don’t want to stay in one box. I’m constantly learning—about my industry, myself, and the world around me. Whether it’s business skills, mental wellness, or spirituality, I’m all in on evolving.
Compassion Over Judgment
Everyone has a story. You don’t have to agree with someone’s choices to treat them with respect. Let’s stop assuming. Let’s start listening.

What’s Next

I don’t know how long I’ll be in front of the camera. Maybe a few more years. Maybe longer. But I do know this: I’m building something bigger.

This blog is part of it. So is the content I create, the conversations I start, and the personal growth I chase every day. I want to show that women in this industry can be anything—smart, sensitive, spiritual, strategic. You can shoot a scene one day and write a business plan the next. You can be sexy and still demand respect. You can take control of your narrative.

Whatever comes next—more writing, speaking, launching a product line, who knows?—I’m taking you with me.

Let’s Stay Connected

If you’ve made it this far—thank you. Seriously. The fact that you’re here, reading this, means the world to me. It means you’re open. Curious. Willing to go beyond the surface.

You don’t have to agree with everything I do to be part of this space. You just have to bring an open heart, a little kindness, and the willingness to see people as people.

So stay a while. Explore the blog. Leave a comment. Ask a question. This space is safe, honest, and real—just like me.

With love,
Erika